Chazz Asks: Do you think it’s an insult for a man to ask for a DNA test?

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  1. Angie

    If they are a married couple and they have not taken any “breaks” than I would be offended. On the other hand, if they aren’t a couple, or were on a “break” during the conception time, or the man has a legitimate reason to believe there is a possibility the child isn’t his, than have the DNA test.

  2. NJ

    I agree with Angie. It depends on the type of relationship that the two people involved have. It may be insulting but, it’s way more insulting to not know for sure than to know for sure. This is true for mom, dad, and child.

  3. Josetty

    I don’t think there’s a problem even if you marry or not guys want to be sure. My brother in law was marry and he believe the kids were his and 16 years later come to find out the kids were some other guy and only cuz she put him on child support and the Court ordered DNA test so for 16 years when he live with them he didn’t know they weren’t his kids so I say go for it you never know with woman.

  4. Francesca

    hmm. depends on the situation. First thought was, well I forgot the number but very many men raise or at least pay or think they have a biological child when it is not there’s. So, women have a power there. One of the main reasons why this whole men are women are thing is I suspect is a fear here of men and it is an understandable one also I think. DNA tests well, it´s a new thing in ancient times you had to trust. Or that is of course an alternative lock her up and tell her she doesn´t want it in the first place, well the fear there might contradict the argument though. So I understand why men might think about it. If it is an insult again depends, course it´s telling the women one suspect she cheated. I´d say if you did well, good question then, if you behaved in a way where it makes him suspect you did, well again good question don´t be offended then if a woman feels offended because IIIIII would never do it, might be the case but it´s somewhat childish also if you´re behavior seemed like it well, I´d say talking mostly does wonders. Talk it trough then or beat him up^^ whatever helps. And yah course it is insulting somehow least it shows there is not maybe not enough trust hmm.. I guess I´d look at that first and why this is but I´ve never been in the situation not sure how I´d feel or react. Most likely well I´ve seen men I liked what it did to them say that power of women and how they use it in parts course some of us only and here I think some understanding is helpfull.

  5. K.

    If I were a man I’d definitely want one no matter if I was married or single or whatever else. Just for the reasons listed above, it happens every single day. Most women are just as bad as men when it comes to cheating. If she has nothing to hide she shouldn’t care. Why would she get offended just because he’d like to be 100% sure it’s his kids? We can thank all the women that cheat out there for making everyone suspicious of all women!!

  6. Joretta Lawrence

    There is nothing worng with it specially if you the (female) know you been around. Don’t have your child calling the worng man dad that is very hurtful for the man and child. Plus you make yourself look bad to everyone

  7. Joretta Lawrence

    There is nothing worng with it specially if you the (female) know you been around. Don’t have your child calling the worng man dad that is very hurtful for the man and child. Plus you make yourself look bad to everyone. This my first time on his page

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