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    Chazz Asks: Do you think it's an insult for a man to ask for a DNA test?
    April 20, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Do you think it was a good idea for Mimi Foust to do the sex tape?
    April 27, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: If you break up with someone that lives with you do you think it's okay to kick them out of the house that day?
    April 27, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Describe the worst date that you have ever been on.
    April 28, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Are you less likely to marry someone who has been married before?
    June 21, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Do you think that you can still have a relationship with a person after you've had sex on the first date?
    August 6, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Is it True that All Men Cheat?
    August 7, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Do you think it's a good idea to send naked pics?
    August 8, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Is marriage outdated?
    August 9, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Should you always leave someone that cheats on you?
    August 13, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Would you date someone who slept with your friend
    August 14, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Have you ever had a rebound relationship?
    August 18, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Was it right for the radio to make fun of Floyd Mayweather's reading
    August 24, 2014
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    Do you think people in relationships should loan each other money?
    September 1, 2014
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    How Important is Money in a Relationship?
    September 22, 2014
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    Do you Believe in Love at First Sight?
    September 22, 2014
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    Do you think the Cavs will win the Championship?
    October 9, 2014
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    Have you ever dated someone you thought was on the down low?
    October 9, 2014
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    Should married people go to strip clubs?
    October 9, 2014
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    Would you stay with your wife/husband if they went to prison?
    October 9, 2014
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    Do you think a man should be responsible for a baby if a woman poked a hole in the condom?
    October 9, 2014
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    Can you be independent if you're on public assistance?
    October 9, 2014
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    Do you think women should pay for dates?
    November 14, 2014
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    Would you date someone with kids?
    November 14, 2014
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    Can a man hit a woman back?
    November 14, 2014
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    Do you feel it's ok to spank a kid?
    November 14, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Tell me if you see the problem with this picture
    December 17, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Do you think race relations are better or worse than 10 years ago?
    December 18, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
    December 19, 2014
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    Chazz Asks: Would you date someone who lives with their parents?
    December 29, 2014
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    Do you think it is ok to date an Ex's friend?
    December 31, 2014
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    How important is it for you to be married?
    January 5, 2015
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    Could you marry someone who made far less than you?
    January 5, 2015
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    Have you ever cheated on anyone?
    January 5, 2015
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    Could you date someone who smokes?
    January 5, 2015
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    Have you ever dated a mama's boy?
    January 5, 2015
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    Can you Regain Trust After Someone Cheats
    January 13, 2015
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    How important is sex in a relationship
    January 14, 2015
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    Chazz Asks: Would you date a recovering alcoholic
    January 15, 2015
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    Should People Go to Jail for Child Support
    February 15, 2015
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    Should a woman have to pay the child support back if the baby is not his
    February 15, 2015
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    Should People Go to Jail for Child Support?
    February 15, 2015
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    Should Both Parents Have Equal Rights to a Kid?
    February 15, 2015
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    Should Drugs Be Legal?
    February 15, 2015
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    Would you date someone with chronic psychological issues?
    March 1, 2015
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    Would You Date Someone that Didn't Own a Car?
    March 1, 2015
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    Would You Marry Someone With Really Bad Credit?
    March 1, 2015
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    Would you have a problem with your mate being best friends with your ex?
    March 1, 2015
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    Does religion matter to you in a relationship?
    March 1, 2015
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    What was the biggest issue in your last relationship
    March 6, 2015
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    Would you date someone that smokes weed?
    March 6, 2015
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    Would you date someone that was behind on their child support payments
    March 6, 2015
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    Would you date someone with 5 Kids?
    March 6, 2015
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    Would You Marry Someone That Your Family Hated?
    March 11, 2015
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    Would you rather date a person with looks and no personality or a person with bad looks and a lot of money?
    March 12, 2015
    Answer this Chazz Asks below: Would you rather date person with looks and no personality or a person with bad looks and a lot of money?
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    What is the Best Love Song Ever Made
    March 13, 2015
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    What's the Biggest Lie that You Have Ever Been Told in a Relationship
    March 15, 2015
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    Would you attend a mega church
    March 16, 2015
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    Have you ever dated two people at the same time?
    March 17, 2015
    Have you ever dated two people at the same time?
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    Have you ever gotten revenge after a breakup
    March 19, 2015
    Have you ever gotten revenge after a breakup?
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    Do you think it's ok to call or text your partners friends
    March 19, 2015
    Do you think it's ok to call or text your partners friends?
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    What would you do if your partner's ex was trying to get them back
    March 19, 2015
    What would you do if your partner's ex was trying to get them back?
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    Do you think music has gotten worse over the years?
    March 19, 2015
    Do you think music has gotten worse over the years?
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    What was the best R&B group of the 90's?
    March 19, 2015
    What was the best R&B group of the 90's?
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    What's your favorite show on T.V. right now?
    March 19, 2015
    What's your favorite show on T.V. right now?
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    Do you have to tell your partner if you had sex with someone they know before you got together?
    April 3, 2015
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    Do you ask for gifts back after a breakup?
    April 3, 2015
    Do you ask for gifts back after a breakup?
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    Do you get along with your partner's parents?
    April 3, 2015
    Do you get along with your partner's parents?
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    Is there an ex that you wish you could have another chance with?
    April 3, 2015
    Is there an ex that you wish you could have another chance with?
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    Would you ever shoot a home pn movie with your partner?
    April 3, 2015
    Would you ever shoot a home pn movie with your partner?
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    Should a woman propose to a man?
    April 3, 2015
    Should a woman propose to a man?
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    Would you date someone that lived in a really dirty house?
    April 9, 2015
    Would you date someone that lived in a really dirty house?
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    Would you keep dating someone if the sex was bad?
    April 13, 2015
    Would you keep dating someone if the sex was bad?
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    Would you stop dating someone if their parents hated you?
    April 15, 2015

Comments 34

  1. Laura

    I’d love to ask a question.
    How can you tell if someone has genuinemy been hurt or whether they’re just a narcissist looking for an empath?

  2. Ms. Antoinette

    Today was the first time I’ve seen your videos and I loved it. You have explained and express things very well. If ever anyone has watched your video and wasn’t able to receive what you were offering they weren’t looking to be fulfilled. Awesome …keep it up

  3. Sara

    In a long distance relationship: if the girl is unemployed because she is unsuccessful at her job search and hence broke and her boyfriend has to pay for her to fly over and live with her, is it justified that he can demand from her anything he wants and treat her in any manner he wants?

  4. Sara

    *lives with him for a few weeks at a time (he also provides for their living, but he does this out of his own free choice)

  5. Alisha-Marie Hilleary

    Ive been checking out some different relationship advice utube channels and yours was the first one that i felt was real and applicable to the real life situations of the average person. Thank you! The understanding the game webisode was a eye opener. I will definitely keep watching.

  6. Colleen

    Me & my ex fiance had started off on a good conversation. Then all of a sudden I exploded on him. True be told I wasn’t over him. And I’m still not. I want another chance. Mind you he’s a Scorpio. And I’m a Pisces. Do you see us getting back together? If so how can I keep him?

  7. Kelly

    Why after my ex over 5 years break up with me, and start giving me the “hot &a cold” vibe? He wants to get back together and when I finally give in to work it out…..next he insist I move on with my life? He’s doing this over in over!

    1. deja

      Because you made yourself an option for him and not a priority! He could deal with someone else and see if it was going to put him in a better position than he was with you. When he figured out that he could be, he chose someone else.

  8. CAC

    Not sure if I ask a question it would get answered. I just ran into your videos on YouTube and now I’m stuck on your channel. I do have questions, just want to be sure I’m not asking for no reason.

  9. honey

    (please give me your opinion. I am so confuse and i need answer)
    I totally agreed when you said that we can’t leave them when we are at the lowest point.
    I met my bf and things was really fine until one day he received a call that he needs to move to another country forever with his family. He and his mother planned to get us engage before he leave but things aren’t work because they don’t want to rush things as he left really soon after he received the call. So he and his mother decided and promised me to come back and put a ring on me after a year because for some reason they’re not allowed to go out from that country after a year. As the day passed by, i found out that he cheated on me by flirting another girls through messages. This happened after he moved to that country. As i promised to myself to leave any guy who cheated on me, I did, but he’s begging me to stay until now. He admit his mistake and promised me that this won’t happened again. I am so confuse of myself as i’m still loving him. I found that he has good qualities compared to bad things which really making me confuse now. He treat me like a princess that you couldn’t ever imagine which was really makes me happy. The only problem that he has is he’s doing things behind my back. So last days i confront and tell him that both of us will not control each other anymore like we used to not to go out with a friend with different gender alone. I said it’s time for me no make new guy friends as i’m so mad after he cheated on me. The woman that he’s flirting with was a girl that he picked up her number in public and they met with each other once before he left and without me knowing about it. This move that i’m going with leads me to be a depressed girl as i’ve never go out with any guys, alone even friend and to be true i’ve never cheated on anybody.
    -I’m thinking that if set ourself with no rules in our relationship to let him and me do whatever we want will end up us loving someone else which is the last thing that i want.
    -I don’t know if i should let us have a space for us and not contact each other and meet with each other after a year. The worst part is, we’re in long distance relationship and they’s no way to meet within this one year.
    -Or should I give him another chance which I myself don’t trust him at all because this has been the 2nd time he done this.

    please help me. I am so confuse.

  10. michael

    i have a question.
    im in a long term relationship of 3 years. i not long found out that my girlfriend had cheated on me. although she didnt actually make sexual contact with the other person. she was just texting him sexual things and showing him pictures of her body and also had plans to meet up with this guy in person etc. when she was confronted about it she seemed genuinely sorry and disgusted in her self. she told me her reason was becuase she wanted attention. i still love her but i want to know how likely is it that she may cheat again. or wont she ever cheat again becuase she got caught? in the mean time she told me she is going to prove her love to me and so i can trust her. she also had no plans on telling me she had cheated and when i asked she said no she didnt do it. until i told her that if she wants to fix this she needs to be honest. after all a relationship needs honesty to work. am i doing the right thing to allow her to prove her self and how likely is it she could cheat again?

  11. Sian

    Hi there.
    I love your videos and find them very helpful.
    I have a question concerning an ex boyfriend of 10years ago.We lost a baby and the relationship went downhill fron there.We were both young and were’nt ready to be parents but he stuck by me for a while after the miscarriage until I finally ended things for good.I was 19 at the time.
    We lost touch and I had kids along the way.
    He started attending barbeques at my house a few years back as he hangs in the same circles as I do and we got along as friends and eventually he got me alone after a few yrs of attending without anything really coming of our short conversations while socialising.
    He appologised to me for how things went and gave his side and we argued a bit but it was helpful to get off our chests.I thought that was it and that we had moved on but recently he cornered me again and brought it up and we ended up kissing.
    We didnt hav contact again for 6months and ths weekend we slept together which ai know was wrong of me to do and now we are back to no contact.
    I don’t know how to handle the situation as I realise I still have deep feelings for him and yet when we get together I seem to push him away out of fear that he may not want to get back with me.What do I do?How will I know if this could become a serious relationship again or if its just him playing games because he knows he can get to me emotionally?

  12. Stephanie

    If i friend zone a guy to cope with him not wanting to be in a relationship even though we both have real feelings for each other will that make him reevaluate the decision he made or will that just make him want to invest more in someone else

  13. Kay R

    Are you able to receive questions, via email or do you have to pay in order to do so? Because I have this situation that I recently went through with an ex and I would love your input on on it…?

  14. Teresa

    Question: i just watched your video on how to make a guy chase you and my question is, “how do you accept victory?” You mentioned several things that one should not do, but, “what SHOULD you do?”

  15. Rob

    I met a female about eight years ago we were living together for 7 1/2 years I was helping her take care of her children and take them to school as the youngest one got closer to getting out of high school I noticed that she began to stop cooking and washing my clothes like she used to . One night we were sitting at home and I was making a statement and I noticed that she had snapped at me so I snapped back then the next day she started telling me that she wanted me to start opening up doors for her and that she felt like she didn’t mean anything to me I know with their opening up doors for her came from watching her friends boyfriend open up doors for her my question to you is after the break up after she asked me to leave I left for three weeks and she still wanted to sleep with me and then out of nowhere I stop receiving calls or texts from her and we had just gotten out of a relationship that was 7 1/2 years I asked her was she seeing someone and she’s asked me what made me ask that question then she finally said she met someone that she is interested in my question to you is with no contact is there a chance for us to get back together because I do love her and is her new male friend now just a rebound that she do not plan to be with forever ? Also in the process of me leaving her place all I did was grab my clothes but I left a lot of things at her house I was supposed to set up a date to come pick them up because I said I would when I heard that she had met someone else I still have not went to go pick them up nor has she called me to come get them so my question to you is with the no contact do I have opportunity to get her back and why is it that she have not call me and said now that you are on vacation you can come pick up your things she knows I’m on vacation I have not text or talk to her for about 18 days since she told me that she had met someone that she was interested in I would like to get your advice and if it all possible can you answer some of my questions. I just would like to know if there is a wrap for me and her getting back together you have to think 7 1/2 years is a very long time to be with somebody and help them when they did not have anything and they were really really do I am bad prior to me coming into their life.

  16. Joan

    Why do men send pictures of their penis to women? Should I as a woman feel bad for calling his penis a baby carrot and insulting him after he sent a picture of his penis and felt that was disrespectful, even though i liked the guy?

  17. Patricia Prince

    Hello, If a guy tells you he loves you, he needs you in his life, you will make a phenomenal wife , etc but is not willing to endure a long distance relationship with you because it will be too hard on both of us, is he telling me these things because he knows i can help him with his future goals?

    1. LT

      Long distance relationships are more prone to fail than not. Opportunities and space to creat affection and excitement will most of the time defeat emotional attachment.

  18. Erica Harris

    Hey my name is Erica I have a question. Ok so I have this friend she seeing this guy.That she really likes so they hang out during the week because her schedule is very crazy she’s a actually a hairstylist. Her schedule is nuts besides that so they hang out during the week when she’s off work and he’s got a busy summer so he tells her don’t give my kisses away he said little things like in a flirting way. He picks you up from work he takes her home. But she also knows he’s one of those kind of guys wear he has a college education he has his own place his own car a good job works for the City of Atlanta she knows he has probably got a big head because of that .He also says right now he doesn’t really want a girlfriend just a friend. She asked me can she be more than a friend I mean a girlfriend. Mind you she’s met his nephew she’s met the nephew’s girlfriend and his niece the nephews child she’s also met some of his close friends. So what do you think. So I can tell her and she can stop asking me. Thank you hope to hear from you soon.

  19. K

    My ex bf Of 1.5 year is undergoing a lot of stress and financial issues due to his new business being unsuccessful. We had a wonderful relarionship. He asked for a break but I pushed him to either work it out or break up immediately. He chose to break up but the next day told me to give him time to stand on his feet, he will come back when he is stronger. Been NC for nearly 4 weeks now, he reached out a few times just to check on me but I answered short and close-ended or none. What should I do now? I want him to know I am here for him but at the same time don’t want to be his doormat.

  20. Sage Savy

    Good Morning Chaz!
    1.Do f*ck boys ever fall in love and treat that wonan good or do they always treat. every woman badly?
    2. Can a woman make a f*ck boy a real man?

  21. Angela

    You don’t lose your human rand constitutional rights just because you have limited finances. No one has the right to treat you badly. She is not a slave just because she lives with him. If he forces sex that’s called rape. If he hits her that’s called battery. If he uses derogatory speech towards her that is assault. We are still in America. However if she wants more respect from him its better to have any income than none at all.

  22. Angela

    Hello Chazz,
    Thanks for your work in the internet community. I made a gofundme donation for your book .
    I haven’t received an email or link or any information about when or how I will receive my digital copy. If you will let me know what’s happening with that, it would be greatly appreciated.

  23. Monique reyes

    What if you just get tongue tied And aren’t sure what to say because prior attempts seem to fall flat? And he came to you so you look him in the eyes and smile waiting for what he seems to have to say but all he does is run his hand through his hair frustrated and say something like good luck bye? Twice.

    Secondly, what if you can’t respond to his reply message and hr after you just say happy Valentine’s day, which seemed happy to hear from me, right away but when you do answer his questions, simple “where are you now? Still in Ireland? “.. he doesn’t reply to your answer or when you ask him the same questions back 🤔

  24. Wynter

    Hopefully Lord will send me Mr Right soon.or do in time those . I’m been single for 4 years now . I’m just continue on focusing on me for right now.

  25. Shauna

    I got out of a long-term relationship/engagement, took some time for myself to refocus. Jumped back into dating, met a cool guy. We chatted for a few weeks. He lives in a different Province than me, and we agreed to meet. Our first meeting, I felt like I I already knew him. I was at ease, and not very nervous. Our weekend was awesome, fun, sexy, laughed a lot, cooked together. All around great time. He asked me to come back the following weekend, and I did. Second trip however wasn’t so great, he had to work a lot, and didn’t have a lot of time for me. The effort made on the second trip out wasn’t the same as the first. He had left for work early, and I had to drive 11 hours back home, and so I ended up leaving while he was at work. He was actually upset with me for doing this, but he didn’t communicate that he had intended on seeing me off, or that I should wait for him to return from work before leaving. There obviously was a misunderstanding of his interest for me, because of the lack of communication. I didn’t think he was that into me and told him so. I wanted to clear the air, but he had to go off to work in a different area of town, saying there wasn’t much service there. So I sent a few texts to him relaying my intention on clearing the air and getting things into a better State, cuz I like this guy. And he gave me the impression that he likes me too because he was upset that I left without saying bye. I think my need to clear the air and and set things straight has discouraged him from communicating with me… he’s made it seem that he’s very busy up at work, with little service, but I’ve seen him on social media… so I’m kind of feeling slighted. He said he would call me when he returned from this job, which I thought was yesterday or this morning, but he hasn’t called me yet. I’ve sent my quota of texts, 2, and I’m not sending anymore…but I’m getting upset now.

    What did I do wrong? Can I change his perception of me at this point, and why isn’t he responding?

  26. Angela Woods

    Hey Chazz, just ran across your videos on you tube, find them to be very helpful and for real, I do have a question for you though? I was in a toxic relationship for 3 yrs had enough and left he and I still talk and hangout, question is. The other day he bought me lunch to work. Arbys my favorite I got into the vehichle with him to have lunch and out of blue he sais what are you wearing you smell like a french whore? Im like WTF, I really showed him no reaction just said Im not wearing any perfume then he said must be your laundry degerent the more I thought about it the more I couldnt figure out why did he say this , anyway shot him a text stating that I seriously wasnt wearing any perfume thanked him for lunch and apologized that my ” french whore ” smell bothered his nostrils but added I liked my laundry detergent smell cause it smells clean and fresh to me, no apoligy from him. No nothing he didnt respond to this at all can you give any insight to this type of situation and this has happend more than once with him towards me this is some of the reason why Im no longer in a relationahip with him

  27. Hemz

    Let me tell u first U r just awesome…u r perectly analysing things and super perfectly advising and helping people.i came to know that I was a rebound for me ex…after I realise that he was cheating on me i left him.but now he is chasing me like hell…he says that he loves me n he will never leave me and all that stuff..but he is still dating his ex…m very confused I want him back…but should I trust him or let it go forever…plz help

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