About Me

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I am the youngest of two boys and as a child I spent a lot of time playing with my GI Joes and that’s when I learned to do all of the silly voices and imitations that have become a trademark of my comedy. As I got older, I continued to do my impressions of other people in church and in school causing me to get several whippings and earn the moniker of “class clown.” One of my teachers suggested that I use my budding talents in the theater by playing Mercutio in Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet and that was when I was bitten by the acting bug.

I went on to act in several plays in high school and college while playing sports and having several odd jobs along the way. I have been everything from a boxer to a car salesmen and even a cop. After my short stint as a law enforcement officer, I began performing standup comedy and fell in love with the stage again. From there I was able to travel as a comedian, perform in some great plays, and was even lucky enough to land a few television roles on some great networks like:

Picture3 Through my travels in theater, boxing, law enforcement, standup, and life; I have learned a lot about relationships, success, and failure and over the past year I have been passing on some of my own life experience on my YouTube Channel called Ask Chazz Ellis. Every week, I am  answering questions and trying my best to help people avoid some of my mistakes, learn from my many success and failures, and having a great time doing it. The success ofAsk Chazz Ellis has also prompted me to take on another endeavor called The Chazz Ellis Project, which is a sketch comedy series allowing me to exercise my acting muscles and give people a deeper look inside of the mind of Chazz Ellis….I hope I don’t scare anyone, lol.

 

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    1. hamideh

      hi I really really need u I am in a complicated relationship…..it has been 2 years but I am living in Iran and I cant pay for online talking…..what can I do for being connect with u and using ur advice?

  1. Liss

    Chazz, I don’t need advice this time and neither any consultation BUT all I want is to heartily thank you.. I’ve been dealing with loads of relationship problems which leads to search answers of all my questions from internet… After watching thousands plus videos and with the help of my lord..chazz your video about “how to know if a guy is playing with you” absolutely cleared everything about my relationship which had been about 4 years. I have no regrets leaving that guy, but only one thing that I wasted my precious time with such toxic person. Before watching it I’ve doing exactly what you said and now I’ve realised what’s actually happened with me. It simply changed my life chazz… I’m so much thankful to you… Don’t have words to say how much your each video helped me… Your work is priceless. If you have a wife or a girl in your life I want her to know that she is the luckiest girl of all and I wish you and family all the happiness of here and here after!! with all my heart and soul I’ll remember you in my prayers for sure. Ones again chazz with my wet eyes .. Thankyou very much.. Btw I’m a blogger and content writer it will be an honour for me if someday you’ll need me for your writing work.. Ones again and forever stay blessed ❤️

  2. Brian

    Hi Chaz
    I saw your videos on youtube and I’m interested in your thoughts..

    quick history of my x’s past,
    She is 51, Father died, mother died, brother died NO IMMEDIATE family. no close friends. very alone..she was married and divorced in her 30’s, no children, her longest relationship is 6 years in and out broken up and back .. I believe she was out of the relationship for about a month before she approached me to see her …. so I’ve know her for 1.5 years before dating.. I’m thinking there could be some feelings of abandomment thus making this case NOT FIXABLE. read below…

    Quick summary.. I met myE X about 2.5 years ago and when asker her out, she said NO because was going thru a current breakup. That was fine.
    About 1 year pasted and we didn’t ever communicate and she approached me to see her, we started dating and it was heaven. she totally fell for me and I fell for her. Then out of the blue…. on the 11 month she says that she wants, house a dog and a marriage and doesn’t see it with me… I was crushed, I waited 2 days and when to her and told her I want
    THAT TOO with HER. We got back into seeing each other (breakup lasted 2 days).
    We then dated for the next 4 moths and things were good, but I could feel her a bit distant.
    The after one night of her expressing that she did not want me to stay over and feeling her pulling away..
    I ended the relationship. I told her I didn’t want to be treated like this and I could feel her leaving…

    BTW – I’m NOT a FB friend, although she is friends with 27 of mine.
    and she was unable to leave personal a items at my house, plus… she would not hang any photos of us in her house…

    we had one last conversation 2 days after the breakup, where all she did was cry and tell me I love you and I’m her best friend and
    she doesn’t know why she is acting like this…
    I told her, I love her and want to be her life partner, marriage,, etc, but
    I cannot do anything to help her now and to do go and find out what her problem is with committiing to our relationship..

    I have not talked to her for 23 days know and decided to implement the 30 day no contact. She has liked many Facebook postings that TAG me, but has not made an effort to connect with me directly.

    I’m writing to you to ask your HARD HONEST opinion on whether this situation is a mental illness, or something that can be over come by waiting it out.

    I’m am 50 years old and she is 51 years old and she could be experiencing meno pause, abandonment issue ( abandonment.net) with close relationships or someother mental illness. Its like being in love with an alcoholic and they aren’t aware of their problems.

    I respect your work as a relationship coach, but I’m not sure if your principles and methods will work with some one who has these possible traits…. Please forward you opinion as I am crushed by this loss……

    Brian

    1. Lou

      Obviously the woman does not love you (otherwise she would have no pbs leaving things at your house after 2.5 years knowing you). But she needs your friendship. Maybe she loves someone else but won’t admit it. Sometimes it’s all about timing. Or feeling-maybe you’re not her type.
      As we say, plenty of fish inside the sea…

  3. royalhope

    watched all your videos and now I’m waiting for more. I want to know about being the side chick or other women. Is there ways you can become the main chick?

  4. Tess

    Im 48, have only dated interracially, was married 20 years to a crazy ass ex NFL player, so there’s not a lot I dont know or havent heard, but you make me laugh so hard….Im just watching to giggle…I guess you confirm things I already know, but mostly, you crack me up…lol take care ( p.s. If you ever need a woman partner, I’m educated, experienced, witty, and down)

  5. Tess

    How or where do I give private comments or feedback on how you can expand your audience….dont want to leave it here 😶

  6. Patricia

    Hi Chazz,
    You should consider doing some videos on job advise, some of the same principals you offer in dating advice can be applied to the work place with a few alterations. Just a new slant on what you’re currently doing.
    Thanks, Patricia

  7. Purplereed

    Hi Chazz

    I found your videos very insightful. I was wondering if you can do videos on how to play the corporate game or dodge the corporate bullets, and career advice in general. With the work world we deal with similar manipulative work colleagues that play games with coworkers if you can draw parallels and give us advice I would be happy to present scenarios to you. Thanks!

  8. gwen

    first, how important do you believe sex is in a relationship?
     
    how often do you believe ” I love you” should be said?

    and the big one:

    my boyfriend and I have been together almost three years and I have always been an emotional person but I’m trying to work on that because it can be overwhelming for everyone. and a few weeks ago I got a new Facebook and decided to look at his pictures, I found some of him and his  ex, curiosity took over and I went to her profile to only find some pictures of them from just last year and immediately assumed he was cheating on me. he told me that all the pictures after 2013 were old or taken from other accounts to make it look like they never broke up and he did tell me when we started our relationship that he had a ex who had a hard time getting over it and did that, but she got help and they’re just friends now and she’s in a relationship with someone else, it took me a bit to get back to 100% trusting him but it made me more insecure than before and sometimes I catch myself wondering if he’s telling the truth but quickly go back to trusting him, I don’t want to push him away because I’m emotional and my trust comes and goes sometimes and I was wondering what you would do in this situation and how you think I should deal with this and if I should just trust him and stop worrying, thank you.

  9. Gary Abbott

    First time I’ve ever heard any of your work! Must say very impressed with how (for the most part) you covered almost every possible issue to look for a problem or possibly one. Plus the way you addressed fixing or preventing it further affects.
    I’m 37 yrs old and been married twice and one other longer term relationship. There are two other big induction that we do either just before or the day after we cheat! Also in return our partners lack of or over reacting to these warnings we do or say!
    I’d be honored to get the opportunity to share my knowledge and personal experience with you. You can help prevent a long portion of marriages and relationships. Your public status and social media experience allows you to make aware what is destroying so many loving and possibly eternal marriages and couples.
    I’m not wanting you to think I’m trying to overstep your boundaries! I’m a emotionally recovering partner of a 7 yr marriages that I destroyed, because the preventive signs over looked in every single one of my relationships and bye standered of countless other close friends and family members separations. Until I watched and discovered the first sign! Almost every single time a person cheats it can be stopped!

  10. vanny smith

    Dear Chazz
    My spouse had dumped me when I discovered him cheating. He never come clean when I asked, but now there have been many unanswered, and unresolved issues over the years. I cut my losses, and focus on myself. Suddenly he is disturbed that I am not calling or texting anymore. I suspect his next move will be to move back in. I want out of this for good. tell me how to deal with this type of cheater. What is your email or contact. I will make a donation some day when I am employed again.

  11. Elizabeth

    Chazz, so I recently discovered your videos and you are so on point. Thank you! That’s first off, secondarily: ur funny, extremely intelligent, have the common sense of an 80 year old, well spoken and ADORABLE. Are you single? There’s NO WAY with all of your knowledge that you’re single! Please confirm. I had a question: how do I attract men that don’t just want to take? Men who know their role as men and provide? I’m self sustaining and am NOT a gold digger, I’m not talking LV bags and ice, I’m talking a man who when u say that you see in need that he WANTS to TRY to help? It’s discouraging bcuz I love black men and prefer them but I also date outside the race and nonblack men tend to have this quality down whereas black men seem to always think they are being used #frustrated 🙁 Hoping u answer this question or email me just bcuz; ) thank you for all you do, sir. Elizabeth

  12. Nartisha Bates

    Chazz I just wanted to take time out to thank you thank you because some of the questions that I needed answered you put them there most of all I have a 14 year old daughter who just started 9th grade and everything that I have been trying to tell her she listened but didn’t so I said you know what we’re going toChazz
    hear from a male perspective being divorced you became that boy so now just wanted to let you know thank you

  13. Shay

    Hi Chazz,

    Love, love, love your YouTube videos with excellent advice on relationships. Quick question… What are some of the ways the man wants make to up with his girlfriend after a nasty argument? When he says “I’m not going anywhere but you Gotta make it up to me” what does that mean?

    Thx again for your advice!

  14. Rachael

    I have to say as a middle age woman, your video’s are 100 percent correct. In fact a lot of what you have said I really never thought of and it makes complete sense. Your content is not only for younger women its really for all ages. I have dated younger men who act more mature then old coots. I would like to see a video on mixed messages. People who declare themselves as your friend but try to involve themselves in your life as a boyfriend would. Not in a sexual way but wanting to have input in your life. Please keep the video’s going and your advice is excellent .

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